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Writing When Life Is Loud: the Reset Routine That Keeps Me Productive

  • Kelly Shade
  • 1 day ago
  • 2 min read

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Writing When Life Is Loud: the Reset Routine That Keeps Me Productive


Some people write best in silence.

I don’t.

I write best after movement. And with noise.


When life gets loud, my mind doesn’t want to sit still. It needs motion before it wants words. And for a long time, I thought that meant I lacked discipline. That I wasn’t a “real” writer. That I should be able to sit down calmly and produce pages like a machine.

I can’t.

And I don’t want to anymore.


Creativity doesn’t live in stillness for everyone. For some of us, it lives in transition. My reset routine isn’t about forcing productivity. It’s about letting it happen.


The first thing I do when life feels loud is move my body. A walk, a workout, dancing, stretching. It's not about counting reps. Movement makes me happy. It makes me creative.


Then I sit in my chair, stare at my notes, and if I feel like it, I start writing. And I let myself write badly. This part matters the most.

When life is loud, perfection is impossible. So I don’t chase it. I write sentences I will delete. Scenes that don’t work. Dialogue that feels flat. Because motion matters more than quality in the beginning. Quality arrives later. Motion brings it in.


Another part of my reset is lowering expectations. I don’t aim for chapters. I aim for presence. One honest paragraph is better than ten forced pages. One real emotion is better than polished emptiness.


I also remind myself that productivity is not measured in numbers. Some days I write 2000 - 3000 words. Some days, I write two lines that change the story. Both count.


When I feel blocked, I don’t ask “what should happen next.” I start writing in my notebook and focus on "what will happen in the chapter", then the next, and the next. I love outlining because it first organizes my story, and second, it is a way to see my story clearly.


Another rule of my reset routine is this: I never punish myself for needing rest. Rest is not failure. Rest is maintenance. Creativity does not survive in constant pressure.


The biggest shift in my productivity didn’t come from strict schedules. Life being loud doesn’t mean you stop being a writer. It means you’re human.


So, my advice is ... Don't fight it, don't force it.... just let it be. And remember, whatever you do, it has to make you happy, not miserable.


Keep doing what you love :)

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